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How to Find Time to Play Video Games as an Adult

By Jason Monroe: Here are tips and tricks on how to find time to play video games as an adult without sacrificing time with your family or neglecting your other priorities.

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closed_account340d ago

Very good points. Learning that it's a losing battle is a must, and like the article says, you have to learn to let go of some games.

I too got big into handheld gaming again after the first baby, first the Vita, then Switch. (I'd like to get a Steam Deck!) It's good, bc you can take it around the house with you. Pick up and play within seconds, always ready to put down when needed. Also retro gaming!

I learned to never play a game I can't pause, bc kids or wife will pull you away in a moment's notice. (Well.... or find a good hiding spot within 30 seconds)

I only ever have 2 major games going at a time, and usually after the kids are in bed. Right now for me, God of War Ragnarok and Diablo IV. The ones I won't play in front of them at this age. I have to be ok w stretching out those experiences over a longer period of time.. game binging isn't as much of an option these days... just an occasional Saturday or Sunday here and there if the kids are occupied w something. Also, I find time for VR late night bc it's such an isolated experience, but I can jump in for 1 hour and still have an awesome time. I LOVE playing MS Flight Simulator late night in Steam VR, as my unwinding experience from work and kids.

I love to see my 6 and 3 year old starting to enjoy Mario Kart 8 together! I wouldn't have put in nearly as much Mario Kart time without them, but there is something special about sharing those laughs, smiles w them. Also, even though it's outdate and glitchy as heck, building in Lego Worlds is a ton of fun together. (bc we love playing real Legos together too)

Things are about to get really crazy, as our third (and final!) child is due at the end of the year! 😂😂😂

Much respect to all of the fellow gaming parents out there! It's hard, but you'll always find time to game at least some.

P_Bomb340d ago

“Things are about to get really crazy, as our third (and final!) child is due at the end of the year! 😂😂😂 ”

Wait WHAT?! Otter, you sly devil you! 😎
Congrats Brutha!

closed_account340d ago

Hahaha, thanks man! Been meaning to catch up w you!

neutralgamer1992340d ago

Congratulations

We have 3 and my son barely lets me touch the controller. When we were growing up gamepass or plus would have been awesome. What’s really sad is more and more games come out monthly and we keep saying I will get to them haha

closed_account340d ago

Yea, I get anxiety looking at services or even my own backlog. The options are overwhelming knowing you won't have time for most of them!

As for your kid, i set up my workdesk w 32in 4k monitor next to living room TV so I can put my 6yr old on the PS4 or Switch.. she's not so picky about insisting on PS5 yet. That may be an issue if yours is older! Occasionally she wants Bugsnax, Sackboy or Astrobot specifically on PS5. In those cases, my pc is decent enough to game on too if she takes over. My 3 year old is taking a strong interest in the Forza Horizon games though, so he may be taking over my PC in the future! In that case, I may finally break down and buy an Xbox. 😅

Crows90340d ago

For real about the games you can't pause...worst feeling.

I only play during nap times and after putting them to bed. Some days we watch movies at night so I don't play at all.

The greater understanding to have is that it's not the end of the world. Games come after family and it's definitely after spouse.

Hang in there man I got 4. Oldest is turning 5. It's manageable.

closed_account340d ago

Yea, we all certainly go through stages in our lives and I can't say "this is how a person should game". I enjoyed my single 20s years, ASM'ing a couple of Gamestop stores & then binging Final Fantasy XI Online, World of Warcraft, PS3 or 360 until dawn the next day. But I recognize that was a stage of my life that I don't want to return to. I don't undervalue other people who are in that binging stage, I totally understand. For me though, I'm happy with my new gaming habits. Sharing gaming with my kids truly feels amazing. I especially enjoy showing them retro games, bc for a moment I see my young child self through their eyes again. That wonderment. That excitement.

Petebloodyonion340d ago

1) Congrats for # 3

2) You understand why the Wii was so successful when your kids start playing it, and it's also at that time you understand that a fun game does not always = the current AAA contender game of the year but most often the simple ones you can enjoy with the whole family.
Basically, Wii sports, Just Dance, Kirby, and Kinect games are getting a second life in my house.

3) Again congrats for #3

closed_account340d ago (Edited 340d ago )

Lool, your Avatar gave me mental images of juggling 3 kids Parappa style w timed music prompts! 😂

Yea, i can appreciate what the Wii did more now through the lense of a parent. I was single, in my 20s during that era though. It wasn't as much for me back then, so I sold it. I like that the Switch offers some motion controls, but doesn't force it. I hand my 3yr old the steering wheel peripheral w motion control & auto-gas on. My 6yr old prefers a standard controller, as do I. It's better to have options!

-btw, thx!

outsider1624340d ago

Congrats on your third. I have a third too. He's 1 year now. Huuu boy, and let me tell you..the time you have to play games will be even less especially the first months. Good luck though. Wishing you health to your family.

closed_account339d ago

Much strength to you too in this journey! 🤜🤛

I imagine most all of my gaming time will be with my kids now! I only recently started showing them slightly more intense games like Ratchet and Clank and Spider-Man. It's about as much as I'll allow their age. Trying to be a responsible parent without being TOO prudish! I watched horror movies w my dad by age 6, haha.. but grew up w terrible anxiety. Can't conclude it's connected, but I don't want to repeat any chance of that with them! 😅

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isarai340d ago (Edited 340d ago )

My biggest thing was learning what it means when a game doesn't "respect my time". As in a game that coerses or forces you to do spend a large portion of time grinding, or doing tasks with no real substance, does it feels like you have to earn the fun. Simply playing a game should be fun, it shouldn't be a conduit to earn fun. As soon as actively having fun is not at the very least 50% of my time spent in the game, I'm done with it. I'm not spending 30mins navigating your boring map just to deliver 5 herbs to some stranger, I'm not spending hours in the menus min/maxing because you can't figure out how to pace your loot and make it matter instead of dumping 5pieces of gear in me every few minutes, I'm not going to play something that is an hour or more between checkpoints, and I'm definitely not going to grind to make up for not paying for microtransactions.

Leeroyw340d ago

I recently got a Psvr2 as you get the gaming "hit" in a smaller amount of time. And you're usually moving. I really love it. And my eldest daughter is engaged too.

giovonni340d ago

Which is why games like Zelda tears of the kingdom, elden ring, assassin creed origin to Valhalla are still sitting in my collection untouched.

P_Bomb340d ago

“ I'm not spending 30mins navigating your boring map just to deliver 5 herbs to some stranger,”

This is why FF14 will be my final MMO. I pounded through Realm Reborn en route to Heavensward (where a lot of ppl say the true game begins). But now there’s another mountain of quests I have to climb before I get there. It’s overwhelming at my age. Good game, but the nature of the never ending grind, I just don’t have it in me anymore.

4Sh0w340d ago

Yep definitely my dilemma, I cope by using my cellphone to talk about games when I'm at work (not working, lol) or between conversations with my wife & friends, other hobbies, otherwise I just relax & play when I can, no pressure.

closed_account340d ago

Ha! Literally what I do, N4G is open ALL day long at work! 😂

I've actually deleted my N4G account a number of times, feeling I'm wasting too much time... but I always come back.

monkey602340d ago

I do this with boardgames 😂 I only get to meet up with friends once a week if we're lucky so an open chat keeps me sane in the meantime

RupeeHoarder340d ago (Edited 340d ago )

Nap times and bed times are go times! I find that I’m really selective in what I play nowadays since the littles came along. Gamepass/PS Plus do little for me as I simply do not have the time to play that many games. Trophy hunting is a thing of the past. I buy the bangers (maybe 6-7 titles a year on average) that I must have to support the devs. The rest I simply wait til they’re in the bargain bin. Time is precious. Family first.

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15 Great Games Where Every Minute of the Experience Feels Earned

GB: "We take a look at 15 amazing games that had the perfect length."

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coolbeans2d ago

Pretty good list. Botany Manor would be the newest addition that encapsulates that title.

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Anyone else not blown away with graphics these days? Me neither

Talal writes: "I'm talking about having that rush of excitement - that feeling you get when you know you've just made a memory for a lifetime."

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OptimusDK5d ago

There are different games. Some have gamplay at it highest priority, some have the story, some have the replay value and choices... There are a lot of different game experiences.

It is laughable that just now graphics does not have anything to do with that experiene. We have had many games of that type over time. This is just the one that have come closest to feel like playing an actual movie. Just look the the Digital foundry walkthrough it is a masterpiece in that perspective and hence wrth trying. But yes do not do it for the gameplay - but that was never the goal of this experience.

GamerRN5d ago

It's because it's on Xbox. When Xbox has amazing graphics, they don't matter. When PlayStation does, it's a game changer!

Lightning775d ago

Pretty much my thoughts. They were technical marvel's on PS and still are. The moment Xbox puts out a graphically intense game is doesn't matter suddenly.

4 years ago this month would the UE5 tech demo debut with the girl flying (tech demo said it was only possible on PS5 because of the SSD. Glad to finally see it in its glory.

fr0sty5d ago

FFS, gaming journalism has really gone downhill. At least hire people with a basic grasp of grammar... "Me neither" means the exact opposite of what the "author" is trying to say. That's like saying "I could care less"... lol.

S2Killinit5d ago

Maybe because the gameplay being dull allowed it to have the amazing graphics and people are not as impressed by graphics alone anymore? I mean there is a lot of sites saying the story and the gameplay are lackluster. So what are we supposed to enjoy then? Cgi graphics are beautiful but since they arent interactive, they dont impress me as much as they used to. Thats an extreme example, but you get my drift.

Terry_B5d ago

When Playstation (Sony) does it..its usually a great game and not a cinematic experience..or at least something new at the time..like Until Dawn back in 2015.

1Victor5d ago

@gamer:” It's because it's on Xbox. When Xbox has amazing graphics, they don't matter. When PlayStation does, it's a game changer!”

The game looks as good as any other PlayStation game in my eyes why can’t you and the other hardcore Xbox be happy about it and drag PlayStation into every conversation and force PlayStation hardcore to look into the game and find flaw that most games have in one way or another.
@light: “ 4 years ago this month would the UE5 tech demo debut with the girl flying (tech demo said it was only possible on PS5 because of the SSD. ”
Yes at that time it was only possible on PlayStation SSD how ignorant of you to think that after 4 years the technology wouldn’t evolved and move to a industry standard 🤦🏿I wish your mentality wasn’t so naive and narrow to post stuff like that 😩 in a year or 2 a new game will come out that might look better, it’s the nature of the industry.

Now that the distraction is gone I feel that is a good thing that the graphics in games are starting to hit the rooftop and hopefully the developers will put more thoughts into story and gameplay mechanics than just the next shiny oily skin of old.

Reaper22_5d ago

So true. Not surprised by all the negativity. It's a really good game and looks better than any game I've ever seen. GOTY nominee for sure. Like I said before, sony screwed up big time by not purchasing Ninja Theory.

Asplundh4d ago

Pretty much. It's like how the Switch and Steam controller using haptic feedback in their controllers wasn't a big deal but then Sony did it and it was then a "game changer".

fr0sty4d ago

The game runs at as low as 21fps... That isn't much to brag about no matter how good it looks.

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MajorLazer5d ago (Edited 5d ago )

We've had graphical gamechangers before, such as Crysis but those games still had gameplay to compliment it. Hellblade pretty much has none, and only achieved such graphics through being incredibly linear and having very small, closed off environments where very little is happening.

Vx_4d ago (Edited 4d ago )

GFX does not mean anything if the game is boring. It is simple like that and these major companies need to understand this simple concept.

Games are like your lady, she may be beautiful to look at for a while but then it gets boring if her character isn't interesting and fun to be with.

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Kneetos5d ago

Mario kart 8 ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Sonic18815d ago

Horizon forbidden West has great graphics and great gameplay

GamerRN5d ago

Yeah but graphics don't matter, remember?

anast4d ago

@RN

I've been pretty consistent in saying that we need both.

GamerRN3d ago

So until dawn, too human, or whatever those series of games were... Graphic masterpieces it garbage with no gameplay?

VincentVanBro5d ago

I agree and I actually think Forbidden West looks better than Hellblade 2. I easily prefer looking at it at least.

Sonic18814d ago

It does look better in my opinion as well. I don't know why it looks better but there's something about the Decima engine or that guerrilla games is using tricks that we don't know of

Abear214d ago

Can you fly a mount under water in Hellblade 2? I think not! One of the best moments this Gen

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Two Decades Later, the Original Splinter Cell is Still a Masterpiece

They don't make games like this anymore.

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vgvill14d ago

Too dated in my book. The AI is way too unpredictable to be acceptable today. It's definitely a game of its time.

Jingsing14d ago (Edited 14d ago )

Agreed with those sentiments. The quality of the CPU controlled characters make or break a stealth game and they are pretty poor in all the Splinter Cell games by today's standard. This is what led me to playing Spies vs Mercs all the time in later games just to get a better stealth experience from a real person. Arguably Sony are making better stealth games albeit not Tom Clancy stuff.

TheProfessional13d ago (Edited 13d ago )

You should stick with fortnite or one of the countless bloodborne style games then. What a joke.

rlow114d ago

I had a good time with the game. It is a product of its time. But when it came out it was a must have game for a lot of people. I wish Ubisoft would make another game in the series or at least a reboot.

vgvill13d ago

They are making a remake, I think. I loved the original game when it was released, but I tried to play it again in recent years and just couldn't get on with it. The same with the older Hitman games.

PrecursorOrb13d ago

Yeah chaos theory still holds up though I gotta say. If you’re a fan of the series I highly suggest you go back to that one. Ubi has said they are remaking sc for “modern audiences”. I don’t have a lot of faith for the future of that company

Chocoburger13d ago (Edited 13d ago )

Due to the lack of modern stealth games, and me constantly playing the MGS series, I've been looking for alternative stealth games to play, and went back and re-played the SC series recently. I wouldn't call SC1 or SC:PT masterpieces, there are AI issues, they're very much trial-and-error games, and that can lead to a lot of frustration. I also found the stories in this series to be boring, uninteresting, and just sloppily told. Cinematics are also of poor quality for both in-game scenes and CG cut-scenes, the soundtrack didn't leave any impression on me either.

Chaos Theory is better, but there was still a lot of room for improvement, and Double Agent (old gen ver.) was a sloppy mess that ended up a regression from CT. But still, at least they tried back then, these days Ubi-junk doesn't even try to make good games!

HvNzSoul5d ago

Everyone needs to quit with all of the unnessacery Ubi-hate. SC Conviction and Blacklist are both still good games.

HvNzSoul5d ago

Everyone needs to quit with all of the unnecessary Ubi-hate. SC Conviction and Blacklist are both still good games, they just weren't 100% focused on stealth with Conviction and they remedied that in Blacklist. The only thing they have released recently that I was disappointed with was Watch Dogs Legion, and Skull & Bones. Everyone seems to be salty about the misleading trailer for the original Watch Dogs and The Division. Which are also, both good games, and actually Watch Dogs seems like it was ahead of its time even with all the trailer drama (having gone back and played recently, can say the game didnt deserve all the flak). Yeah the misleading E3 trailer that had better graphics than release is understandable to a very small degree, when most Teaser Trailers, or Game Demo's only have that portion of the game developed so they use the highest quality assets of w/e they have being showed, or what they are showing was made purely for the showing, allowing for extra polish . As to the gripes about minor game design changes, or cut features upon a games release just goes to show how unknowledgeable most gamers are in terms of how game development works or to even understand what what the hell a WIP, let alone titles still in early development.

Good games from Ubi since 2014 (Year that SC Blacklist Released) include:

Watch Dogs 1 & 2
The Division 1 & 2 (Although I had a hard time getting into The Division 2 at first)
R6 Siege
Ghost Recon Wildlands & Breakpoint
Immortals Fenyx Rising
AC Origins, Odyssey, MIrage (Haven't finished Valhalla games too damn long)
Far Cry Primal, and 5 (6 also has a length issue)
Avatar Frontiers of Pandora
Prince Of Persia The Lost Crown

Haven't played a couple of titles those being For Honor (played at launch but didn't honestly give it an actual go), The Crew, R6 Extraction and at the time of writing this xDefiant.

Even if you absolutely hated any of the above titles, they aren't inherently bad games, they're just good, but not always top quality either.

I say give Ubi credit where credit is due, they at least fix games post launch if they start out rough, Breakpoint is an excellent example this and is such an enjoyable experience now compared to it's launch.