To be honest I don't see the gaming angle here any more so than other forms of culture. In fact the original article makes as much reference to other forms of disposable culture as gaming and I think that NPR have cynically emphasized that aspect but there are still some interesting points in the original piece.
The article does miss out a large demographic and it certainly doesn't reflect my life (I am a 26 year old married Scotsman, living and working independently in Germany as a freelance games journalist) but if I think about some of the young men I know, there is at least a decent percentage of them that have this so called Child Man syndrome.
To be honest I don't see the argument or the emergent phenomenon as anything new. Peter Pan syndrome anyone? Many generations of men have been refusing to grow up since the 60s. It is true that there are more pop culture distractions available to us now to fill the void of statutes like marriage, family, career and so on but then society is a very different place nowadays.
Why bother voting when you can watch the latest series of South Park, why bother reading a newspaper when you can go on N4G and read about how the cell processor can crush diamonds into powder just by looking at them. I am being facetious but the reason we have this rising cult of individualism in young men (and women too but in other ways) is because of an overwhelming sense of apathy towards anything that is really important.
The Child Men or Child Women are not the problem, they are a symptom of a society that has lost its way. It is little wonder people feel a more meaningful connection with facile aspects of culture than with world events or more long term life goals. If we continue to preach bigger better faster more through the media all the time then that is how people will live their lives. Patience is not a virtue our generation is taught and patience is pretty damn important if you want to get a career, get married have children etc.
So really I think the sneering tone of the article is way off but the ideas are pretty sound even if it does fail to mention that there is a demographic that is capable of involving itself in both sides of the coin.
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