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How to Find Time to Play Video Games as an Adult

By Jason Monroe: Here are tips and tricks on how to find time to play video games as an adult without sacrificing time with your family or neglecting your other priorities.

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closed_account320d ago

Very good points. Learning that it's a losing battle is a must, and like the article says, you have to learn to let go of some games.

I too got big into handheld gaming again after the first baby, first the Vita, then Switch. (I'd like to get a Steam Deck!) It's good, bc you can take it around the house with you. Pick up and play within seconds, always ready to put down when needed. Also retro gaming!

I learned to never play a game I can't pause, bc kids or wife will pull you away in a moment's notice. (Well.... or find a good hiding spot within 30 seconds)

I only ever have 2 major games going at a time, and usually after the kids are in bed. Right now for me, God of War Ragnarok and Diablo IV. The ones I won't play in front of them at this age. I have to be ok w stretching out those experiences over a longer period of time.. game binging isn't as much of an option these days... just an occasional Saturday or Sunday here and there if the kids are occupied w something. Also, I find time for VR late night bc it's such an isolated experience, but I can jump in for 1 hour and still have an awesome time. I LOVE playing MS Flight Simulator late night in Steam VR, as my unwinding experience from work and kids.

I love to see my 6 and 3 year old starting to enjoy Mario Kart 8 together! I wouldn't have put in nearly as much Mario Kart time without them, but there is something special about sharing those laughs, smiles w them. Also, even though it's outdate and glitchy as heck, building in Lego Worlds is a ton of fun together. (bc we love playing real Legos together too)

Things are about to get really crazy, as our third (and final!) child is due at the end of the year! 😂😂😂

Much respect to all of the fellow gaming parents out there! It's hard, but you'll always find time to game at least some.

P_Bomb320d ago

“Things are about to get really crazy, as our third (and final!) child is due at the end of the year! 😂😂😂 ”

Wait WHAT?! Otter, you sly devil you! 😎
Congrats Brutha!

closed_account320d ago

Hahaha, thanks man! Been meaning to catch up w you!

neutralgamer1992320d ago

Congratulations

We have 3 and my son barely lets me touch the controller. When we were growing up gamepass or plus would have been awesome. What’s really sad is more and more games come out monthly and we keep saying I will get to them haha

closed_account319d ago

Yea, I get anxiety looking at services or even my own backlog. The options are overwhelming knowing you won't have time for most of them!

As for your kid, i set up my workdesk w 32in 4k monitor next to living room TV so I can put my 6yr old on the PS4 or Switch.. she's not so picky about insisting on PS5 yet. That may be an issue if yours is older! Occasionally she wants Bugsnax, Sackboy or Astrobot specifically on PS5. In those cases, my pc is decent enough to game on too if she takes over. My 3 year old is taking a strong interest in the Forza Horizon games though, so he may be taking over my PC in the future! In that case, I may finally break down and buy an Xbox. 😅

Crows90320d ago

For real about the games you can't pause...worst feeling.

I only play during nap times and after putting them to bed. Some days we watch movies at night so I don't play at all.

The greater understanding to have is that it's not the end of the world. Games come after family and it's definitely after spouse.

Hang in there man I got 4. Oldest is turning 5. It's manageable.

closed_account319d ago

Yea, we all certainly go through stages in our lives and I can't say "this is how a person should game". I enjoyed my single 20s years, ASM'ing a couple of Gamestop stores & then binging Final Fantasy XI Online, World of Warcraft, PS3 or 360 until dawn the next day. But I recognize that was a stage of my life that I don't want to return to. I don't undervalue other people who are in that binging stage, I totally understand. For me though, I'm happy with my new gaming habits. Sharing gaming with my kids truly feels amazing. I especially enjoy showing them retro games, bc for a moment I see my young child self through their eyes again. That wonderment. That excitement.

Petebloodyonion320d ago

1) Congrats for # 3

2) You understand why the Wii was so successful when your kids start playing it, and it's also at that time you understand that a fun game does not always = the current AAA contender game of the year but most often the simple ones you can enjoy with the whole family.
Basically, Wii sports, Just Dance, Kirby, and Kinect games are getting a second life in my house.

3) Again congrats for #3

closed_account319d ago (Edited 319d ago )

Lool, your Avatar gave me mental images of juggling 3 kids Parappa style w timed music prompts! 😂

Yea, i can appreciate what the Wii did more now through the lense of a parent. I was single, in my 20s during that era though. It wasn't as much for me back then, so I sold it. I like that the Switch offers some motion controls, but doesn't force it. I hand my 3yr old the steering wheel peripheral w motion control & auto-gas on. My 6yr old prefers a standard controller, as do I. It's better to have options!

-btw, thx!

outsider1624319d ago

Congrats on your third. I have a third too. He's 1 year now. Huuu boy, and let me tell you..the time you have to play games will be even less especially the first months. Good luck though. Wishing you health to your family.

closed_account319d ago

Much strength to you too in this journey! 🤜🤛

I imagine most all of my gaming time will be with my kids now! I only recently started showing them slightly more intense games like Ratchet and Clank and Spider-Man. It's about as much as I'll allow their age. Trying to be a responsible parent without being TOO prudish! I watched horror movies w my dad by age 6, haha.. but grew up w terrible anxiety. Can't conclude it's connected, but I don't want to repeat any chance of that with them! 😅

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isarai320d ago (Edited 320d ago )

My biggest thing was learning what it means when a game doesn't "respect my time". As in a game that coerses or forces you to do spend a large portion of time grinding, or doing tasks with no real substance, does it feels like you have to earn the fun. Simply playing a game should be fun, it shouldn't be a conduit to earn fun. As soon as actively having fun is not at the very least 50% of my time spent in the game, I'm done with it. I'm not spending 30mins navigating your boring map just to deliver 5 herbs to some stranger, I'm not spending hours in the menus min/maxing because you can't figure out how to pace your loot and make it matter instead of dumping 5pieces of gear in me every few minutes, I'm not going to play something that is an hour or more between checkpoints, and I'm definitely not going to grind to make up for not paying for microtransactions.

Leeroyw320d ago

I recently got a Psvr2 as you get the gaming "hit" in a smaller amount of time. And you're usually moving. I really love it. And my eldest daughter is engaged too.

giovonni320d ago

Which is why games like Zelda tears of the kingdom, elden ring, assassin creed origin to Valhalla are still sitting in my collection untouched.

P_Bomb320d ago

“ I'm not spending 30mins navigating your boring map just to deliver 5 herbs to some stranger,”

This is why FF14 will be my final MMO. I pounded through Realm Reborn en route to Heavensward (where a lot of ppl say the true game begins). But now there’s another mountain of quests I have to climb before I get there. It’s overwhelming at my age. Good game, but the nature of the never ending grind, I just don’t have it in me anymore.

4Sh0w320d ago

Yep definitely my dilemma, I cope by using my cellphone to talk about games when I'm at work (not working, lol) or between conversations with my wife & friends, other hobbies, otherwise I just relax & play when I can, no pressure.

closed_account320d ago

Ha! Literally what I do, N4G is open ALL day long at work! 😂

I've actually deleted my N4G account a number of times, feeling I'm wasting too much time... but I always come back.

monkey602319d ago

I do this with boardgames 😂 I only get to meet up with friends once a week if we're lucky so an open chat keeps me sane in the meantime

RupeeHoarder320d ago (Edited 320d ago )

Nap times and bed times are go times! I find that I’m really selective in what I play nowadays since the littles came along. Gamepass/PS Plus do little for me as I simply do not have the time to play that many games. Trophy hunting is a thing of the past. I buy the bangers (maybe 6-7 titles a year on average) that I must have to support the devs. The rest I simply wait til they’re in the bargain bin. Time is precious. Family first.

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With articles like these cant you tag the games mentioned so that we can know ahead of time if there’s a spoiler to avoid?

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